1. Before adulthood - oasis

Gf at 15 โ†’ profound oasis & deeply meaningful

  • Donโ€™t feel like I need to write about this, feels very obvious. My home life was tough, and then omg, amazing girlfriend in my bedroom, suddenly life is amazing. And weโ€™d drive to school in her car, share music, go on holidays etc. It was so so good

My gf was the absolute best thing in my life so of course I wanted to go to uni with her

  • God damn it, this made me cry just to write, damn
  • Again, no need to write more. To not go to university with her would have been absolutely mad, seriously shooting myself in the foot. Itโ€™s not like she was a random meh girlfriend and I went to uni with her despite not really wanting to. I really really wanted to be with her

2. Adulthood - living together

Our own place for the first time ever

  • After Masterโ€™s, after splitting up for a year, first time ever living just the two of us, no house mates, no family, so fuckin sick dude are you kidding me dude
  • Instead of the oasis of a bedroom, now an entire place!

So meaningful!!!

  • Dude, so good
  • My girlfriend picked awesome colours for the walls, super satisfying to have it all come together
  • Very lucky to have had a lovely gf with really great aesthetic taste

Painted the kitchen

House and dog

3. Holidays

So many awesome holidays

  • I saw the world thanks to her!! I learned so much!!
  • Iโ€™m not posting photos of her, so Iโ€™ll just say them and look at the photos myself, lol
  • Off the top of my head:
    • Italy!!! Rome, Naples, Amalfi coast, Venice, Florence, what a fuckin trip
    • Norway!!
    • New York!!
    • Marthaโ€™s Vineyard!!
    • Scotland!!
    • Barcelona!!
    • Dorset